In 1564, at the age of ten, we were both sent
to Shrewsbury Grammar School to be educated and to learn the disciplines and
responsibilities expected of young gentlemen. During a school break, Philip, with his
aristocratic connections, spent time with his uncle in Oxford where they entertained Queen
Elizabeth I for a full week. How I wished I could have been there. He did not tell me much
about the visit or his reaction to meeting the Queen. I distinctly remember two years
earlier in 1562, his mother Lady Mary had nursed the Queen through a terrible bout with
smallpox, an occasion of which the nation feared the imminent death of its Monarch.
Elizabeth recovered without affect from the disease, however, Philips dear mother
herself contracted the virus and, although she recovered, was left with gross
disfigurement and mental suffering. This caused Philips father to effect separate
residences, households and retinues for himself and his wife.
With an honesty and closeness that belies true friendships, he recounted his bout with
measles and smallpox in the same year that his mother fell ill. It was as if I had never
observed his pockmarked features until that moment. His travails with this wretched
disease, unlike his mother, affected only his physical appearance, for inside was a human
being who had transcended the calamities of our sometimes fragile bodies. When I looked at
Philip, this was the Philip I saw and loved.
Our post grammar school education was followed by three years at Oxford University
where we studied the arts and sciences. Not content to devote his energies to limited
disciplines, Philip dashed undaunted into the whole spectrum of higher learning with a
confidence and comprehension that elicited praise from the masters.