Byron Joslin participated in the prosperous
times that followed the end of the war. With brother Clay and his father, Robinson, Byron
opened a sash and door factory on North Main Avenue. The Joslins later entered the
construction business, and subsequent to that operated a grocery for 7 years. He married
Elizabeth Deering on June 6, 1871. They had two children, William and Ada. William Jasper
received a pension after the war due to a disability. He married twice before he met
Alberta in 1927. Their friendship began when they talked across the fence in his front
yard. As author Rhetta Grimsley Johnson concluded, "Her alliance with the Rebel
veteran was honorable, if unromantic. That union, which amazingly produced a son,...was
one of mutual need and respect." She cared lovingly for William until his death
in 1932.
As the years passed on, and his Shelby County Civil War comrades passed away, Comrade
Joslin became increasingly active in veterans' affairs. At various times until his death,
Joslin was a state and national representative to the Grand Army of the Republic
encampments. He served as the aide-de-camp, assistant adjutant, and quartermaster general,
and then commander of the Ohio G.A.R. He was one of the few remaining veterans to attend
the 75th anniversary of the battle of Gettysburg in 1938.
Granddaughter Vera Killian of Sidney, one of Byron's two grandchildren who survive, has
fond memories of him. He would travel into Sidney on the streetcar from where he lived
with his son on Millcreek Road to visit with family and friends. On Christmas Day,
Grandfather Joslin appeared with a silver dollar for each grandchild.
His interests included making wooden puzzles, collecting old books, and keeping
scrapbooks of news on Civil War reunions and local events. The scrapbooks, comprised of
hundreds of pages, offer a fascinating insight into early Sidney through the eyes of one
of its most loyal and patriotic citizens. It was as the unquestioned symbol of patriotism
in Shelby County, however, that Byron Joslin was best known. For over seven decades he
participated in Memorial Day
parades, always in his full dress uniform. Vera Killian recalls that he required family
members to attend such important civic events. In his Sidney Daily News obituary,
the author noted: "Few men have walked more steadfastly under the waving
flag of his country that Comrade Joslin, and none here more endeared himself to the adult
or youth than this aged man who took part in every patriotic undertaking possible."
Some around town still remember him polishing the marble tablets in the Monumental
Building weekly during his visits to town. In Elba, Alabama, Alberta Jasper Martin lives
alone. Above her couch hangs a picture of her husband, Jasper. Next to it is a portrait of
Robert E. Lee. She still collects her pension, and has her memories. In Sidney, the legacy
of Byron Joslin lives on through his descendants such as granddaughter Vera Killian and
great grandchildren Woody Joslin, Rob Joslin and Mary Jane Drees. Pictures hang on their
walls, and they have their memories.